If you’ve decided that you’ll never do it again, Barbieri recommends trying at least a few of the following:
1. Share your fantasies about role-playing games that you’ve been harbouring.
Alternatively, you may try introducing that sex toy you’ve always been interested in. Because, let’s be honest, if you aren’t communicating with your partner, it is likely that you aren’t getting what you need from the relationship in all of its aspects.
The most healthy and natural technique to boost a woman’s sex drive is having a tight connection with her partner, emotionally, cognitively, and physically. Having open lines of communication with your partner is the best foreplay a woman could wish for.
2. Eat a lot of avocados and do some exercise.
You are aware that in order to properly fuel your body, you require seven to nine hours of sleep, regular exercise, and nutritious foods.
All of this, of course, will aid in the stimulation of your sexual appetite. In order to lose weight, Barbieri recommends eating a diet that is high in whole foods and high in healthy fats, such as avocados, olive oil, and nuts, while reducing your intake of processed carbohydrates, trans fats, and sugar.
Do you know about the mood-enhancing endorphins that you get during or after a workout? That can also get you pumped up before going to bed. Libido and sexual performance were shown to be higher in women who exercised moderately to vigorously.
3. Put on a face mask while watching an episode of Queer Eye on Netflix.
Stress has been shown to be a significant libido depleter. Barbieri, on the other hand, believes that spending some time for yourself might be beneficial. During the week, schedule some time for yourself to indulge in some self-care activities. Take yourself to a movie, get a manicure, or attend a yoga class—whatever it is that brings you a sense of well-being.
4. Consume a large quantity of oysters. Yes, this is true.
Although the data isn’t conclusive, aphrodisiacs such as oysters, eggs, caviar, asparagus, celery, onions, and clams are certainly worth a try. Foods like caviar and genitalia eggs, for example, are supposed to enhance sex drive because of their aesthetic resemblance to genitalia. Some foods, such as caviar and eggs, are said to enhance sex drive due to their visual resemblance to genitalia. Oysters are high in zinc, a mineral that many people lack, and this could result in a lack of sexual desire in some people.
5. Inviting the big guns is a good idea.
If you’re trying to increase your sex drive, losing weight, consulting with a doctor about drug side effects, or going to physical therapy for pelvic pain are all good options.
If you’ve done everything else, Barbieri suggests that hormone replacement treatment be considered as a last resort. In these situations, the most important thing to do is consult with your doctor to determine what is the most appropriate course of action for you before taking any action.